Post by Pete Hurrikane on Apr 19, 2012 14:39:28 GMT -5
I always had a very active inner critical voice during my golf swing but only really started to notice it as an adversary to my performance about ten years ago.
You all know the voice I am talking about, the one that says,
"Don't hit this one fat"
or
"Remember to start back slowly"
or
"Don't pull this one to the left like you did with the last one"
And does this help... sometimes but unfortunately rarely!
I also noticed that the closer I got to the hole, especially on the green, this voice would increase the volume of its commands with a non stop 'rat a tat tat.'
I haven't made a putt all day - I probably won't make this one - Oh stop being so negative - that's it think positive - this ones going in - OK back smoothly - don't jerk - forward smoothly - don't jerk - oh shit, I jerked - I should give up right now. etc etc
I decided there had to be a way to stop this incessant voice that was bullying me during a procedure where I would rather not hear commands or reminders.
Reading the green and approaching the ball was no problem but as soon as I got over the ball the voice would start issuing these endless commands. During my back swing I would hear it saying, "Don't leave it short," and sometimes I would hear myself thanking it for the warning.
Now, if one of my playing partners had said this to me during my back swing, regardless to how well he meant it, I would probably have warned him to keep his mouth shut in future. But how could I silent this uncontrollable inner voice? You can't say shut up to yourself and if you do it doesn't stop anyway. What to do?
I decided to use an 'Inner Game' method - Tim Gallwey - and give the inner voice something to do that it does very well. I commanded my inner voice to say, "Tick" at the end of the back swing and "Tock" at impact. These two words are also quite logical because it is a pendulum motion and the two seconds are also quite apt. It covers timing and rythym and also shuts up my inner critic.
Give it a try, it helped me.
You all know the voice I am talking about, the one that says,
"Don't hit this one fat"
or
"Remember to start back slowly"
or
"Don't pull this one to the left like you did with the last one"
And does this help... sometimes but unfortunately rarely!
I also noticed that the closer I got to the hole, especially on the green, this voice would increase the volume of its commands with a non stop 'rat a tat tat.'
I haven't made a putt all day - I probably won't make this one - Oh stop being so negative - that's it think positive - this ones going in - OK back smoothly - don't jerk - forward smoothly - don't jerk - oh shit, I jerked - I should give up right now. etc etc
I decided there had to be a way to stop this incessant voice that was bullying me during a procedure where I would rather not hear commands or reminders.
Reading the green and approaching the ball was no problem but as soon as I got over the ball the voice would start issuing these endless commands. During my back swing I would hear it saying, "Don't leave it short," and sometimes I would hear myself thanking it for the warning.
Now, if one of my playing partners had said this to me during my back swing, regardless to how well he meant it, I would probably have warned him to keep his mouth shut in future. But how could I silent this uncontrollable inner voice? You can't say shut up to yourself and if you do it doesn't stop anyway. What to do?
I decided to use an 'Inner Game' method - Tim Gallwey - and give the inner voice something to do that it does very well. I commanded my inner voice to say, "Tick" at the end of the back swing and "Tock" at impact. These two words are also quite logical because it is a pendulum motion and the two seconds are also quite apt. It covers timing and rythym and also shuts up my inner critic.
Give it a try, it helped me.